Self-harm – distressing and important
Self-harm is not limited to suicide.
There are different behaviors for harming yourself. A difference to remember is that someone who self-harms still see a future of living.
It’s important to recognise this is different from someone trying to die.
You may find self-harm confusing.
- From what we understand, the reason for self-harm is to do with the brain.
- The parts of the brain that deal with pain experience emotional and physical pain at the same time.
- So, when someone self-harms, there is a rise in physical pain and then a drop.
- This results in a brief drop in emotional pain, giving some relief to the person in their turmoil.
- The self-harm may also restore a sense of control or be a way of punishing themselves in self-loathing.
If someone you know is self-harming, you should reach out.
It is dangerous and can be helped.
It can escalate beyond control and lead to serious harm.

For sure, there’s a lot more to think about and talk about, so let’s share and create a Voix Guide together, and find out what’s important for YOU.